Kohlberg says that moral and ethical behavior develop through a series of six stages. Each of these stages is more advanced in its thinking and ability to confront moral dilemmas.
Lawrence Kohlberg's stages of moral development
Highest Justification for Moral Behaviors
Lowest Justifications for Moral Behaviors
Blind Egoism VS. Instrumental Egoism
Zeke is definitely somewhere in level 1: Pre-Conventional in the Kohlberg Model. But where? It's a little bit tricky to determine how a two year old justifies decisions of morality.
Stage 1: Punishment Avoidance
How can I avoid punishment?
Stage 2: Self-Interest
How can I get what I want?
Observations:
Zeke is generally well-mannered. He says sorry often times if he accidentally hurts someone. He says 'please' and 'thank you' in the appropriate contexts. However, he has his own agenda and will go to extreme measures to get his way. It's a battle.
(Zeke brought a chair into the kitchen to climb the counters)
If Zeke is told "no", he throws a fit until he gets what he wants. This can last 10-20 minutes. (self-interest)
If Zeke is told he will be punished for bad behaviors, he ignores the warning and continues to do what he wants. (self-interest)
If Zeke is offered an award, he will comply without fighting. He gets something out of it and becomes okay with that activity. (self-interest).
(He was told to not climb the counters and then pouted)
Zeke is more than likely in the 2nd stage of Preconventional Moral Development. He acts out of interest to himself, rather than avoidance. If he wants something, he knows it's better to not get caught so he can continue to pursue what he wants, rather than to avoid punishment at the cost of not getting what he wants. An action is okay if it is beneficial.
There are times, however, where Zeke will try to avoid punishment (stage 1) by being sneaky and clever. This could be used to justify putting him in stage 1, however, the outcome is of self-interest.
I can get what I want IF I avoid getting caught (punishment).